This is really wierd for me. Back home its a non issue. But, we're not back home anymore are we, we're definately not in Kansas.
Quickly: we have a female friend, successful car dealer, mid 30s and has a small coffee shop on the side. She also has a beautiful 9 y-o daughter with hubby. She's not with hubby any more but daughter is. Our friend has a boyfriend who is married. They agreed to have a child (not a leaky-skeiky). He was still married when the baby was born.
Everyone following?
Now when we met her, we knew she was the mistress but not knocked up. My g/f was okay with this. Now that she delivered her new son, she want's to have a party with only her good close friends including us.
The g/f blew a gasket. She starts hollering at me in Chinese. She grabs a dictionary to learn a new word - concubine! I had to run to the other room and supress my laughter. The g/f won't go to the party, everyone there will lose face. (Umm, honey, if we know the situation, I'm sure everyone else does too)
I should not have these kinds of friends, do I have them in Canada? I told the g/f that our friend, since she is financialy successful, she's probably fairly smart. And she's old enough to make her own decisions. I'm not her judge.
I'm going to the party without the g/f. She told our friend she is in Beijing on business
<<<<<< This smily just doesn't convey my feelings of WTF!
Uhmm, honey, you've been sharing a bed with a divorced father of two who is old enough to be your father for 2.5 years now. I tried to teach her the stones/glass houses thing to no avail