Okay, I'm over my silly fit now.
Rollerboogie, you bring up a good point. One I forgot to bitch about above, and that's the debilitating effect of my own damn prejudice, such as with Zhengzhou. China is huge and I have never been there. All the feedback I have to go on is random travel sites, the occasional forum thread, and my girlfriend--who isn't in the slightest bit helpful 'cause she's from Shanghai... Good thing is she's been practically everywhere in China. Bad thing is she thinks every other place in China is unworthy of her home city.
The result of this lack of info and barrage of conflicting information (I say "conflicting" because, of course, some people will love a city and others will hate it; it's all relative, but when their words is all you have to go by it's a lot of cognitive dissonance) is that my mind will read a few good points about one place, blow it up into some kind of oasis and unconsciously turn the rest of the PRC landscape into a barren desert, metaphorically speaking. Rationally, I know this to be untrue but with all the frustration and eagerness to "find a job, NOW," it becomes a real mental trap. Right now, for instance, I'm stuck on Chengdu. I hear the lifestyle is very laid back, the weather is good, the food is spicy, the women are gorgeous and petite (which I love), and so I'm obsessing over this city even though it might not be what I'm making it out to be. The thought in my head is, "If you go to China for only one year, do you really want to be wasting away in some boring place while everyone else is living it up?" Again, I realize this thought of "missing out" is ludicrous--a place will be what you make it--but it's difficult to get past it. I want the "right place" for me and I don't want to regret an entire year of my life as I did back when I was in Germany. I thoughtlessly went to a "city" of 200,000 and I nearly lost my mind until I could finally escape to Berlin six months later.
Hm... I wonder if other job hopefuls go through this mind game.
Anyway. I'm just inspecting my attitude in an effort to adjust it. That's the good thing about forums, where you can look back on your own words. One day, I know I'll look back on this post and laugh.
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Thanks FB and Fozzy for the valuable info on Zhengzhou. And Macho: THANKS, dude. That thought had not crossed my mind. I didn't even know it was possible.
Rollerboogie... what is this "halloo" thing? I have heard people stare at you in places where they're not used to foreigners but are the stares hostile? I always thought it was kinda like, "Ooh, cool... Foreign dude." I don't mind that kind of attention. But the "hallooo"... Are those catcalls? I have heard of this before but I took it in a positive light as well. Like, people greeting you in the only English word they know.
The farm school in Chengdu is out. Thanks.
And Roller, I'd really be interested in finding out more about the nightlife. I know they have a club called Babybody (lol...) but not much else. And the general friendliness of the people there, i.e. would it be relatively easy for someone with basic Mandarin (it'll be intermediate a few months into my stay) to befriend locals there?
For the record, the school in question is HuangHe Science & Technology College (黄河科技学院).
Goddamn, what a novel I wrote. Just venting here, so thanks for listening. You guys rock.