Thanks for the replies.
I am in somewhat of a beggars cant be choosers type of situation. I am aware the salary sucks but I only have one other offer and that is a kindergarten in Zhangjiagang at 40 hours for 8000 a month with 12:30 to 14:00 for lunch/prep time.
Those are my choices. After 40 applications I got just two offers
and only 4 were interested in inquiring more about me.
The kindergarten wants a teacher now and has three other applicants, they offered a job and want a decision now. The Uni well I am still in the process so there is no guarantee. If I say no to the kindy then it is all or nothing with the Nanjing uni. If they say no, I will have to leave the country as there are no other options for me.
I am leaning towards the kindy as even though it is not great pay for the hours (though not all teaching some is just taking care of the kids in English) and the location is a little isolated but not something I am not used to. They do want me and is thus guaranteed should I say yes...I hope.