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Author Topic: From China Daily: Differences between Chinese women and American women  (Read 13768 times)

Day Dreamer

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Gotta love it! Where do they get this stuff? Oh yea I know, from watching Friends, Sex in the City, and Gossip Girls

http://bbs.chinadaily.com.cn/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=850269

1. American women share men’s life; Chinese women change and own men’s life.

2. For American women first-time sex is to abandon awkwardness; For Chinese women first sex is to devote their most valuable.

3. In the U.S., women always want to be husband`s friend; In China, women sometimes argue irrationally with men and sometimes act as a small woman.

4. In the U.S., having sex with men will enhance women`s feelings and happiness; In China, having sex is considered as a lifetime devotion by women.

5. American women always think their husband is most handsome man; In eyes of Chinese women, Korean movie stars and British football players are the most handsome men.

6. In the U.S., women call men “My dear”; In China, women call husband “Damn”.

7. American women do not deliberately want his man to be kind to her; In China, women will say to men: Look, how well American men treat women.

8. American women are always grateful to the man who is kind to her; Chinese women think it is natural that men should be kind to women, or else they may think you must take advantage of them.

9. In the United States, after a woman has sex with you, mostly she does not know how much money in your pocket; In China, if a woman feels you are a pauper, she even dose not say “hello” to you.

10. American women will enjoy acceleration running fun in your luxury BMW car; While Chinese women sitting in your BMW car will belittle Buick car on the side.

11. American women do not refuse those men who try to get close to her; Chinese women think the men who get close to her must have some special purpose and want to take advantage of her or behave like a hooligan.

12. In the U.S., if you meet above-mentioned Chinese women, they must marry a useless American man and then write how happy her marriage is; In China, if you come across a Chinese woman like American woman described above, she must be the gem, and you should cherish her.(China Whisper)
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I'll give CDaily this, I would rather read silly tongue in cheek jokes than the kind of serious racial stereotyping which is all that CSmack peddles these days.

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Hmm. The article is utter nonsense. However, the topic may be worth pursuing. Some 30-40 years ago, I had an American GF, and a Greek, an Israeli, a French.........I liked to sample the "exotic", as with food and wine.  Get my drift? Now I' m married to a Chinese.
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Women are women. They share characteristics, the obvious aside. Stereotyping women by nationality/race/ethnicity doesn't work. Statistics don't prove anything; 85% of people know that. There are some cultural expectations you may have of different nationalities, but all generalisations are false. I invite students of logic to attack this piece of research.
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There should be a compulsory module on university curriculae(?) called 'FRIENDS AND GOSSIP GIRLS ARE FUCKING WISH FULFILMENT FICTION NOT DOCUMENTARIES!'

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It sounds like the writings of an unhappy man. My observations are that there appears to be more than a little bit of truth there. I really hate to see a woman belittle a man and vice versa. I was sitting next to a husband and wife yesterday at the Casino. They were of Greek origin and neither speak English very well. They have been communicating with me for a few years and it appears that finances are tight. The husband sat like a puppy at a poker machine while the wife played the machine next to it. Every "win" she had, she would take out the money and occasionally put a coin in his machine. He was not "allowed" to play without her say so and he spoke only when spoken to. I felt so sad to see this behaviour, given that I know that life is too short to waste it. I had to leave before I stepped out of line. bibibibibi

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Later on I read some of the other lists they have come up with. The common theme is that western types are to be admired because everything they do is better and the Chinese should do whatever they can to latch on to a foreigner.

I think that from the list above, you can completely switch the two (American and Chinese girls) and the list is still true. Stereotyping happens everywhere and this kind is prevelent in China (was that stereotyping?) And of course its skewed because here they only see a small cross-section of other countries. All I know is that if I was the role model for my country, there'd be no Chinese in Canada.

Just for larfs, #10 is the funniest apart from all the sexual contrasts. For this, #9 is a hoot too!
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Re: From China Daily: Differences between Chinese women and American women
« Reply #7 on: November 30, 2013, 05:27:36 AM »
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7. American women do not deliberately want his man to be kind to her; In China, women will say to men: Look, how well American men treat women

I hear this one quite often from not only my wife's friends (they all tell her they are jealous), but also from visitors, especially after my wife asks me to do the dishes or some other chore.

I always hear later that when they asked their husband to do the dishes and after they ask why it always is "'Mrs. Casey's' AMERICAN husband does it for her whenever she asks. If he can, so can you!"

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Re: From China Daily: Differences between Chinese women and American women
« Reply #8 on: November 30, 2013, 09:38:06 AM »
I have a *ahem* special friend. And I'm always asking him, "how is it different being with an american," and "how is sex different between an american and chinese." and he walkways looks at me like I'm an idiot. "No different," he says. That's just one of the reasons I like him. Gilrs are girls, and individually they can suck, or be relaxed and cool, or bossy and whatever. But nationally, you just can't stereotype like that.

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Re: From China Daily: Differences between Chinese women and American women
« Reply #9 on: November 30, 2013, 11:28:30 PM »
My observations here in Australia are that many Asian women appear subservient, but on closer and longer observation, I gain the impression that ultimately they get what they want. They also appear to mix more easily with males of other nationalities, whereas the Asian males, particularly the older ones, don't mix well with females of other nationalities. I have been here in Brisbane for about 11 yrs and I attend the Casino regularly. I know many of the Asian males by sight, however there is not and never has been even one who has voluntarily sat at my table and had a conversation with me. To prove a point to myself, I have forced the issue on a couple of occasions. The point I am trying to make is that an Anglo male will often ask to sit at my table especially if it is crowded and he will usually strike up a conversation. I notice the same type of behaviour when an Asian male sits beside an Anglo woman whilst at the Poker machines. I also have made it my business to watch Asian males to see if they show any type of interest in any non Asian ladies and I have to say that is EXTREMELY rare. You guys would know what I mean when I say that you will turn to look at an attractive young lady even if you are in a happy relationship; it is just human nature. I'm sure that a lot of you will also strike up a conversation with a member of the opposite sex, even while you are waiting for a bus. What I am trying to say is that I don't observe this type of behaviour in the Asian male, even in the shopping centres. I expect it would be different in a place where there were only a few Anglos as I expect that their natural curiosity would make them turn around for a look. I hope I'm not coming across as racist here because I am really just puzzled by the Asian male's behaviour in my Country. Has anyone got any possible answers?  I've just noticed that this is an on topic area, so I hope I haven't upset the apple cart. bibibibibi

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Re: From China Daily: Differences between Chinese women and American women
« Reply #10 on: December 01, 2013, 07:54:25 AM »
I have a *ahem* special friend. And I'm always asking him, "how is it different being with an american," and "how is sex different between an american and chinese." and he walkways looks at me like I'm an idiot. "No different," he says.

You are always asking him that?

Poor guy, that must be really annoying.

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Re: From China Daily: Differences between Chinese women and American women
« Reply #11 on: December 01, 2013, 09:05:06 AM »
hahaha, okay, not always. Just two times. But then I did ask him a few months after I asked him the first time, cause I thought he was just being coy or something in the beginning.

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Re: From China Daily: Differences between Chinese women and American women
« Reply #12 on: December 01, 2013, 04:27:04 PM »
My observations here in Australia are that many Asian women appear subservient, but on closer and longer observation, I gain the impression that ultimately they get what they want. They also appear to mix more easily with males of other nationalities, whereas the Asian males, particularly the older ones, don't mix well with females of other nationalities. I have been here in Brisbane for about 11 yrs and I attend the Casino regularly. I know many of the Asian males by sight, however there is not and never has been even one who has voluntarily sat at my table and had a conversation with me. To prove a point to myself, I have forced the issue on a couple of occasions. The point I am trying to make is that an Anglo male will often ask to sit at my table especially if it is crowded and he will usually strike up a conversation. I notice the same type of behaviour when an Asian male sits beside an Anglo woman whilst at the Poker machines. I also have made it my business to watch Asian males to see if they show any type of interest in any non Asian ladies and I have to say that is EXTREMELY rare. You guys would know what I mean when I say that you will turn to look at an attractive young lady even if you are in a happy relationship; it is just human nature. I'm sure that a lot of you will also strike up a conversation with a member of the opposite sex, even while you are waiting for a bus. What I am trying to say is that I don't observe this type of behaviour in the Asian male, even in the shopping centres. I expect it would be different in a place where there were only a few Anglos as I expect that their natural curiosity would make them turn around for a look. I hope I'm not coming across as racist here because I am really just puzzled by the Asian male's behaviour in my Country. Has anyone got any possible answers?  I've just noticed that this is an on topic area, so I hope I haven't upset the apple cart. bibibibibi

I think a lot of them are intimidated by western women to be honest. They receive next to no sex education and they see TV shows with western women going out, having multiple sexual partners, having orgasms and boasting about it. They probably believe all western women are like this and they probably feel they wouldn't be able to handle one  bhbhbhbhbh

Hence the shyness...

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Re: From China Daily: Differences between Chinese women and American women
« Reply #13 on: December 01, 2013, 10:27:10 PM »
Thanks Arnold J. I had wondered if they may have heard the same types of stories that we hear about the "size" of Asian folk as opposed to non Asians. I understand (on good authority) that this is not necessarily true. Last week, a Chinese lady gave birth to a 6.1kg baby! aoaoaoaoao aoaoaoaoao


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Re: From China Daily: Differences between Chinese women and American women
« Reply #14 on: December 02, 2013, 07:51:54 AM »

4. In the U.S., having sex with men will enhance women`s feelings and happiness; In China, having sex is considered as a lifetime devotion by women.


Bahahahaha!