I have been told by ladies who know, that there are some generalisations going around about Asian males. I am told that they are just that, so I wasn't asking about that aspect
as far as the males go. I have observed this "girlish" behavior in older Asian ladies; I expect to see it in YOUNG ladies of all nationalities. I have the greatest desire to tell the older ladies to cut the crap and to ask the older guys to "get real".
I guess it's what you see is what you get with me. Interesting what you have told me about the males. As you know, most men turn to look at an attractive female, but I have taken particulalar notice and this does not generally appear to happen here even with the younger Asian males. It is as if they are purposely NOT looking, because my observations here are that Asian folk appear very nosey and miss nothing. In case you are all wondering about my interest in this topic, it is because human behavior interests me as long as I can just observe it. As my friends say.."If they are out there, they will find you!" Now to give you a quick smile! I appear to have come to the attention of a young man who collects the trollies at the supermarket. He is obviously foreign and he always goes out of his way to wave to me or to rush up to my car to take my trolly from me to save me putting it in the trolly bay. My older neighbor (who is nosey) had to give him the third degree yesterday. He is apparently an Afghani refugee who had been held in detention in a refugee centre. His story appears very sad. Looks like Granny Mae has attracted another lost soul.
By the way, he appears to have been given some visa, so there doesn't appear to be any ulterior motive; besides, I'm tooooo old.
Perhaps its just as well I was too ill to go to China to teach. Who knows what could have happened with this relationship stuff?