It is a dive, and small, and the girls can be pushy, but they leave you alone soon enough once they realize you're not there to play, as CP said.
But the owner-she's a sweetheart with a heart of gold, which is why I always stop by when I'm in town. Way back when, she was one of the working girls there but she was approaching her past due date. A friend of mine, one of those memorable characters, a crazy (in a good way) Austrian engineer fell for her and she, him. She decided she'd rather be on the other side of the bar, so she bought the owner out. It became her bar, and she works the bar herself (have we mentioned it's small?). She doesn't push anything on anyone and if she thinks a girl is bothering you, too much, she'll tell the girl to back off. Most of the foreign customers come in just to shoot-the-shit with her and each other. Some like to have the girls paw them while they sit at the bar but it's not required. Never saw a dice game in there and in all my times there. She knows foreigners hate that shit.
I can only recall seeing one foreigner go upstairs with a girl. (Lots of Shanghainese and Taiwan business guys will do the upstairs thing, though-or else get scared seeing so many foreigners sitting at the bar and decide to try other chicken bars up the street.)
Back to the owner, two years after she bought the bar, the Austrian was gone. Disappeared on her and just about broke her heart.
In between then and now, she had a nasty accident on her motor scooter (all the girls on Shi Quan Jie have motor scooters) and ended up for months in the hospital. Her "girls" ran the bar for her and it went downhill (that's prolly about the time Raoul had his "bad experiences" there).
But she's been back now for more than a year, and it's once again a lively place. She's been dating a Dane for the last couple of years which is how it became Denmark Central. Since she and I go way back, she'll usually pour me a shot or two "on the house" to go with my beers when I stop in...and how many Chinese-run places in China do you know that will do that? And like CP said, just ask her for whatever music you want and if she's got it, she'll put it on the CD system.
It's worth a stop in just to meet the one of the warmest laobanniang you'll encounter in China and to expereince the sociology of the place.
P.S. Maybe we should split this off from the Suzhou Hotels thread because it has gone way