Yeah, enneagram isn't a very feel-good typer. Mine, e5, says in the first line, "people of this personality type essentially fear that they don't have enough inner strength to face life". Lol, but true, probably. Some of the types sound cool, like e8, but they all end up being double-edged in some way. Personality, apparently, is supposed to be that way: no one is "balanced", everyone leans more heavily one way than another and gains something by that but also loses something.
I thought of enneagram because it--or more exactly, "personalty"--makes a difference to responses to things like "We'd like to speak English to you."