It's cool to hear your stories, Granny. I love people watching, too. The trick would be to come up with something plausible you could say in such a situation that would go along with your position and yet induce some awareness.
Or just enjoy the show since people do what they want anyway. Especially mens.
I got the typical student question today, "Teacher, I want to improve my English. What should I do?"
Of course pretty much all FT's constantly answer this question directly or indirectly during class, but the students all think we're hiding the secret to learning English in 3 days inbetween stamped pages of our passports.
Anyway, the chat came around to her asking, "Which is more important? Speaking, listening, reading, or writing?"
"Listening. Listening is always the most important thing."
And it's the thing that young men with testosterone don't do very well.
Especially when looking at low cut dresses. I'm sure God intended it this way: sometimes men have the power, and sometimes women lean forward and take it away.