You want to go out for a meal, you want have a beer, you want to know where the best bread shop is... sure and I'll come to you and suggest it, but I'm not here to help you with every fucking problem you have, call the the FAO, and I'm not interested in listening to how this place sucks and how you can't wait to get the hell out of here and how Chinese do or don't do whatever. You are going to be here for a year or two. I'm here for almost a decade and a half.
I have my friends, my family, my schedule, my bubble. Maybe you can be a part of it but you don't get some sort of free pass in just because you are a foreigner.