Never done a little amateur video Day Dreamer?
Between my ex and my current g/f, I can fill a terabyte and a half drive with videos and pictures. And I can safely offer a million dollars to anyone if they can find a single image on the net. These items were/are for our own consumption. Not one has ever been posted anywhere anytime PERIOD. I mean the dirty picks that will make EL salivate, not the "here I am in the HK Disneyland ride"
Dress sexy and have fun - no complaints here. Neither girl has ever had to use (overtly) sexual charms to obtain things. Of course we all do it to a degree. We flirt whether its for fun or to move ahead of the line. But we're talking about something far greater here. My ex has a great job, she got it with intelligence and merit. My g/f does well because she's smarter than the average bear.
When either wanted to flash some skin (my g/f loves wearing a bikini) it's for amusement and not for any financial renumeration. Years ago I drove cab and did quite well when there was once business. I had my share of "I'll give you some num-num for a free ride" I always said no. Not because I'm some upstanding paragon of virtue. I had a wife, kids and a mortgage. I told them I couldn't give their blow jobs to my bank manager in lieu of payment. Trust me, I tried and he turned me down, "sorry, I prefer cash!" he said and so did I.
I don't think we have prudes here. At the same time, there's a time and place. As to what piglet said "There seems to be very little awareness of men and women as equal partners in a relationship,friends,lovers and sharing everything... sad." I learned that lesson a little late and I lost my first wife because of it. She made mistakes too but we are now friends and have walked away a little bruised but not broken. I'm not making that same mistake. My g/f's friends go into shock when she tells them how equal we share everything. She still has some old Chinese ways of doing things that confounds me. It takes work, but anything worth doing is worth doing well