Tuco - any update on how things went?
Ive just stumbled into this thread and I know where you are coming from as a fellow commitment-phobe
And you know what, its perfectly OK to be a commitment-phobe IMO. Some people get married, some people dont, some people stay in one job for life, some people change every year. One isnt more correct than the other, they are just different to each other.
Im 42, and have no desire to settle down and get married, not that Im a player, I dont really have any desire to have a series of different girls hanging around and making me look good either. Ive learnt to understand myself and accept my life as it is, and thats kinda enough for me. Sure, Ill have some relationships from time to time, and normally have some little anecdotes to share over a beer about love and my life ... but settling down is the last thing I want, and I actually feel Id be throwing my life away if I did such a thing!
I guess what Im saying is however you feel is OK...nothing wrong with it and if you feel that being the way you are is swimming against the tide all the time, my advice is to stop swimming and just see where the current takes you