Hello ladies. Thank you. I currently attempt to get three year business and trade certificate students at a third rate university in a fourth-tier city. I am about to sign a contract with a real, provincial level university in a wonderful, comfortable second rate city that I am excited about. I just traveled across the country to meet with a nice lady who won my heart through correspondence, only to get the cold shoulder the minute I met her in the flesh. a few thousand rmb tossed into the gutter for a foolish notion of "romance" Yin and yang: the China life, eh?