Thanks a lot for the nice wishes everyone!!
We have indeed decided to tie the knot in January and I'm rather excited.
Just in case any Brits are reading this and you want to know about the paperwork: I went to Beijing this week to the British consulate and I had to take my passport and my fiancée's ID card in order to get the required form. I had to swear on a bible that everything I wrote was true (they didn't have the book of Scientology, which I asked for as I'm such a wag
). Then they took 685 yuan and told me to come back in 21 days. When that time has elapsed I will have to pay 685 again to get the form I need. Then from what I understand it will cost 9 yuan to register the marriage. I asked the guy there why it is so expensive for Brits, when it costs so much less for Canadians, and he said it's because the British consulate is self-funded. My government is so great to its people
Anyway we are in the middle of planning everything. Well... her and her family are anyway. I have been told just to sort out the rings and my own clothing for the ceremony, though I have insisted that I will at least be consulted about the small details before they are decided. One thing I am pleased about is that we have arranged to marry in a beautiful church, which will make my mother happy even if she can't be there!
I have been told that I will be expected to drink a lot on the wedding day as we move from table to table to enjoy a gun bei with everybody
Is that normal?
Are there any things that I should be thinking about for the wedding? How about the money that we will receive from guests... how does that work exactly?
Any tips for after the wedding?
Any idea of a nice place for a honeymoon not too far from Shandong province?
All help appreciated. As you can tell I'm a total newbie