Yeah, I mean, she's a stay at home mom, which is great, that's her choice and all, but there's a clear way out of your financial troubles right there.
Also, notice the 125,000 dollar house that they had to "settle for." I've been looking at buying a house when we return to the States and we won't be able to go near 125,000, but that's ok, I have a husband who is very handy and if we have to buy a fixer-upper, so be it. This is a buyers market and there are some amazing deals on property in the States. Not only that, but look at that picture -- their child has a room full of toys and books, and even from that small shot, you can tell they've decorated their home nicely. No Goodwill for them. I mean, I'm not saying you have to do away with all nice things, but when you claim your struggling but you live in a nice house with nice things and you're choosing to be a stay at home mom, it is sort of hard to take seriously.
All that said, I do think that making it on 50,000 a year would be a bit of a stretch, especially depending on the area. However, after living in China for nearly 10 years I also have extremely different ideas about what "hardship" means. My friend and I were looking at houses with her fiance from the States and he was vetoing these houses that she and I were ooohing and ahhing over because let's face it, I pay more in Beijing for my rent than I would on a monthly morgtgage in the States and my apartment is no palace, it is actually extremely average, small, in a not so exciting part of town, so yeah, when fellow Americans feel like they gotta have their dream home in a great neighborhood with this and that and the other, I sort of roll my eyes.