I'm not good at playing 'secretive' games, if I can't be open and honest I HATE it. The only time I like secrets is for birthday and Christmas presents. This does get me into trouble - I tend to say and do things that might be wiser kept to myself - but ... everyone is dead clear about where I stand and what I stand for. Open and honest is where I'm at. This can make me a target at times - but if I can't stand up for what I say or do, then I am a weaker me.
Why the need to hide?