Granny Mae, Babala, respect and kudos to both of you, it may be heat exhaustion but I found myself becoming rather irritable while reading this thread, and noticing the path it has taken.
I had an experience similar to Granny's, but the opposite, does that make sense? I think I'm trying to say, my sexuality was being talked about, I did the deed the first time with a young apprentice spray painter that worked in the same auto shop as my beloved brother and my dad, brother came back from buying morning tea to find the tea room brethren convulsed in laughter about what an easy root Stan's daughter was! Eddie picked him up by his throat and told him that his baby sister had given him the most precious thing a girl can give to a boy and that he should be grateful for that, not smearing her reputation, then Eddie threw him down a flight of stairs, Eddie had just come home from Vietnam and was still a very angry young man! When he got home that evening he told me he had a bone to pick with me, took me for a walk and gave me a talking to that I can still hear 35 years later.
My feelings on your story? If what happened between you and her was meaningful to you, look after it protect it and keep it private, respect her. If it was a pleasant romp with a girl you don't care about, don't play 'nice boy looking for advice' bullshit games, surely you have a local pub you can run to for bragging to your mates about scoring!
Apologies if this has come across as a tad aggro, but it is very hot and I am grumpy.
Rx